Monday, May 23, 2005

It doesn't have a title

Ever notice how relationships, be it friends, family or schoolmates grow apart so easily? when you think you're getting closer to someone and beginning to understand that person, he/she does or says something that makes you feel like a total stranger to them. one minute ur having such blissful conversations and the next you find yourself totally ignoring that particular person. how is it that this kind of thing can even happen? i mean, when you find that you're finally starting to connect with that person.. all of a sudden *poof* its gone. the time spent all gone down the drain.. you find someone that actually understands you and makes you laugh.. but just never lasts.. how peculiar.. why does God make it in such a way? is it not right? how is it really supposed to be? i wonder how the Lord's mind works..

* Had a sudden urge to blog.. comments anyone?

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

i personally think its unfortunate we all experience this problem but somehow it teaches us along the way how to let go of things ,,be it big or small somehow we just have to learn to let go and along the way we learn and become a better person a little bit smarter and a little bit tougher..we gotta get through somehow so i guess the best way is to be though about it ..peace out

raycheerache said...

God has His way of working things out.. Just trust in Him and He will guide you.. And i think that relationships are meant to be nurtured, be it brand new or old.. God has a purpose everytime He allows you to make a new friend or restore an old friendship.. HeeHee..
*thumbs up on ur blog!!*
I'm lovin' it
Badapababa!!! haha *muacks*

Joash Chan said...

Don't think that God caused relationships to go *poof*... In fact, it's God who intended us to need relationships. I'll blame this on human's laziness and unawareness of the beauty in others.

Please don't stop pondering!! You're opening up so many minds with your writing. God is using you...

Anonymous said...

Why is God's name mentioned in everything.Is there really a divine purpose in petty affairs.

Sheryl said...

Yes there is.

Frostynipples said...

Reading your blog does kind of remind me of reading a bible.. in a good and bad kinda way... but.. oh well .. : )

Anonymous said...

I think we shouldn't assume everything that happens are as God-willed. Many things happen because of our own fault. I totally agree with you that relationships seems so artificial nowadays...Making friends is easy, keeping them is another story...

Michelle said...

the incommunicability of the uncommunicable?(how can I ever make myself fully transparent to another if I am still a mystery to myself)

or, you're afraid of being too close, too committed, so you unconsciously sabotage the relationship just enough to expand the social distance.